Gold Star Family Candlelight Vigil

During Memorial Day weekend, we honor the sacrifices of the Gold Star Families who have lost a loved one in service to our country with a Candlelight Vigil.  

We are honored to welcome Major General Mark A. Graham, U.S. Army (Retired), MBA, as our guest speaker. A Gold Star father and dedicated mental health advocate, Maj. Gen. Graham has devoted his life to promoting mental health awareness and suicide prevention following the tragic losses of his sons—Second Lt. Jeff Graham, killed by an IED in Iraq in 2004, and Kevin Graham, a Senior Army ROTC cadet who died by suicide in 2003. Together with his wife Carol, he continues to champion efforts to end the stigma surrounding mental health care in both military and civilian communities. Among his many pursuits, he currently serves as director of Vets4Warriors.

Doors open at 7 p.m. for the reception. The Gold Star Family Candlelight Vigil procession will begin at 7:45 p.m. on the Museum rooftop and travel down to the Soldiers Cross in Memorial Grove. The ceremony begins at 8 p.m.

The Gold Star Family Candlelight Vigil is open to the public and is intended to be a solemn ceremony for Gold Star Families to remember immediate family members who lost their lives in service to our country. If you wish to honor an extended family member, fellow servicemember, or friend, there will be a dedicated time for that during our Memorial Day Remembrance Ceremony on Monday, May 26.

Major General Mark Graham
Mark A. Graham, MBA
Major General, U.S. Army (Retired)
Executive Director, Vets4Warriors® & Rutgers UBHC National Call Center

Major General (retired) Mark Graham is currently serving as the Executive Director, Rutgers UBHC National Call Center. The center includes the national Vets4Warriors® peer support program plus thirteen additional peer support helplines, the New Jersey state suicide crisis line, two National 988 Backup Centers (phone and Chat & Text), the UBHC Access/Transfer Center and the New Jersey state substance use and addictions support line (Reach NJ) connecting individuals to providers 24/7.  

MG Graham retired from the US Army on August 1, 2012, after almost thirty-five years of service. His final position was as the Director (G-3/5/7) U.S. Army Forces Command, Fort Bragg, North Carolina. In this position, he oversaw the plans, operations, and training for Army forces (active and reserve component) stationed in the Continental United States and ensured conventional forces were prepared for worldwide deployment and combat.

MG Graham and his wife, Carol, are tireless champions of military and civilian efforts to promote mental health and suicide-prevention awareness, and to eliminate the stigma surrounding mental health care. To honor the memory of their sons, 2LT Jeff Graham who was killed by an IED in Iraq in February 2004, and their son Kevin a Senior Army ROTC cadet who died by suicide in June 2003 while studying to be an Army Doctor at the University of Kentucky, the Grahams established the Jeffrey C. and Kevin A. Graham Memorial Fund to provide the “Question, Persuade, Refer” suicide prevention program at the University of Kentucky. The Grahams were instrumental in establishing the Jeffrey and Kevin Graham Memorial Endowed Lectureship in Psychology for the study of depression and suicide prevention at Cameron University, in Lawton, Oklahoma. Additionally, they support the ongoing efforts of the Pikes Peak Suicide Prevention Partnership, Colorado Springs, Colorado (El Paso County), through the “Jeffrey and Kevin Graham Support Services”. The Graham’s story is featured in the award-winning book, “The Invisible Front: Loss and Love in an Era of Endless War”, by Yochi Dreazen.

MG Graham was commissioned a second lieutenant of Field Artillery in December 1977 at Murray State University. Spanning almost 35 years, MG Graham served in key command and staff positions in the United States, Germany and Korea. Past assignments include Field Artillery Battalion Command at Fort Sill, Oklahoma; Brigade Command in California as the first Active-Duty Army Colonel to command a National Guard brigade in peacetime; Commander of the Battlefield Coordination Detachment, Osan, Korea then the Executive Officer to the U.S. Forces Korea Commander; Chief of Staff and Deputy Commanding General of the U.S. Army Field Artillery Center and Fort Sill; the Deputy Commanding General of 5th U.S. Army/Army North where he supported evacuation and relief operations following Hurricanes Katrina and Rita; then as the Commanding General of Fort Carson, Colorado and Division West of First US Army.

In addition to his bachelor’s degree in political science MG Graham holds a Master of Business Administration (MBA) from Oklahoma City University and a Master of Science in National Security Strategy from the National Defense University in Washington, D.C. He is also a graduate of the U.S. Army Command and General Staff College and the National War College.

MG Graham’s numerous military awards include the Distinguished Service Medal, the Bronze Star Medal, the Defense Superior Service Medal, the Legion of Merit, the Meritorious Service Medal, and the Humanitarian Service Medal.

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Sponsored and supported by: Ford, Lane Aviation, Greater Columbus Arts Council, Nationwide, AEP Foundation, CardinalHealth, Battelle, and Wolfe Foundation. Free admission for veterans, active duty, and gold star families

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May 25, 2025

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Doors open at 7 p.m.; Ceremony at 8 p.m
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